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Good Night Texts to Send (So they think of you all night long!)

Send these good night texts for her & him so that they know how much they mean to you.   

Maybe it’s after a date night or sent to remind your love that you miss them and are thinking about them.


Often when we are apart, we want to still stay connected and this is a simple way to do just that. 


Sending a text is an easy way to let them know that they are the last thing on your mind before going to sleep.


I personally love a goodnight text, no matter how long I’ve been with someone. 

Especially if you’re an overthinker, having something positive in your head that makes you smile before going to bed can be perfect. 


How to create your perfect good night message


It’s not always easy to say what’s on our minds, which is why sometimes a simple message is the best.


You might also be someone who likes long messages before bed, which is also great! 


It all depends on your partner and what they are like, and how long you’ve been together/how you communicate. 


Below are some tips on how to create your own personal good night text.


1. Go with your feelings!

Think about how you feel when you are not with them. You want them to know what you miss about them or how you would feel if they were by your side.


Be honest with them, don’t try to act cool, it is so much better when you both are on the same level and comfortable with each other. 


2. Give a compliment.

What are the things that you think about most when they are not with you? Do you miss their smile, eyes or hugs the most. Let them know!


This is also a great way to recognize if there is something new about them, or something they’ve been doing really well lately that you want to highlight to them. 


If they’ve been really busy and have been stressed, maybe mention that you think they are doing a great job, and you are proud of them. 


3. Personalize your message

Think about what they like, such as their favorite songs or quotes and send a message that makes them feel special. 

Find things that are personal to both of you as a couple. This may be a special memory or a reminder of a special night together.


Have fun! Teasing and flirty messages will definitely spice things up and keep them thinking about you until the next time that you are together.


Sending a funny little joke before bed can also be a great way to personalize your message.


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Good night texts for her

Use any of these good night texts for her to show that you care about her and are thinking about her. 


I can’t wait to see you in the morning my luv


You are always in my thoughts, especially at night. Sweet dreams


I love you & miss you


I miss you the most at night, sweet dreams babe


Whenever I have a bad day, I think of you and feel instantly better. Sleep well


Hoping you have the best dreams about me tonight! 😏


I am so lucky that you are in my life, I love you. Good night sweetheart


I can’t wait until I  am sleep so that I can think about you. Good night honey


Good night beautiful!


Each night, I miss you more than the night before


Good night my love


I appreciate how you make me feel special, especially when you are in my arms. Sweet dreams luv


You make me so happy, pleasant dreams honey


You make everything special, all my love



Cute good night texts for her

Having a cute text for her before bed is a great way to end the day. I love receiving messages that make me smile before I am heading to bed. It really can change your mood completely. 


Good night darlin, I will be dreaming of you tonight


Thinking of you before I go to sleep always gives me the best dreams.


Sending you hugs and kisses, good night luv


Sending you love and happy dreams tonight. I miss you


Remember that you are always in my thoughts, especially tonight. Pleasant dreams darlin


I will be home soon to hold you in my arms. All my love.


I am so happy that you are in my life, good night babe


It’s so hard being away from you, but I am looking forward to seeing you soon, Good night love.


I am reminded of you in so many ways throughout the day, good night babe, I love you


I had such a great time with you, and can’t wait to see you again. Sweet dreams


You mean so much to me, I love you, good night luv


See you in the morning, luv


Sleep well sweetheart


Sending peaceful thoughts your way


I will be dreaming of you 😉


You are so beautiful when you sleep, I miss you, Sleep well love


Sleep well and have wonderful dreams


good night texts for him



Good night texts for him

While you might typically think more of girls receiving good night texts, it shouldn’t just be the case. 


Make sure that your boyfriend/husband is receiving good night texts from you as well. Emphasize how much you like them and appreciate them in these. 


Use some of our examples to help you out if you need some inspiration: 


Sending you good thoughts for tonight and a bright tomorrow


Everything changed when you came into my life, things seem brighter and more colorful. Sweet dreams


Sleep well and have a happy day!


Your scent is on my pillow and it is so comforting. I miss you


I would love to feel you by my side, good night love.


 I enjoy every moment that we spend time together, sweet dreams


Good night babe, hope you had a great day today! Can’t wait till is see you..😊


When you go to sleep, think of me holding and kissing you. Xoxo 


Good night honey, you make me smile whenever I think about you. 😊


I long for you the most at night. You are always in my dreams.


When I close my eyes, I imagine your arms around me. Good night my love.


I had the perfect day with you and can’t wait to dream about you all night.


The night is empty without you. I miss you, pleasant dreams


It’s very possible that I may have some dreams about you that could be indecent. Sweet dreams


Until I fall asleep by your side every night, I will keep telling you how much I cannot wait for that time.


Often I daydream about you, but the best dreams about you are at night.


Good night handsome.


Until tomorrow, all my love


I hate when we are apart, it only makes me want you more. Sweet Dreams



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Good night messages

These aren’t tailored to a specific gender, use any of these to send to your partner before bed. 


I am so lucky that you are mine. Sleep well babe


Good night, sweet dreams 


Dream of me 😀


Sometimes I cannot stop thinking about you which makes sleeping so difficult


I love knowing that when we look up at the sky even when apart, we are still looking at the same moon & stars


You are always in my heart, I love you. Good night darling


You make me smile and warm my heart, sweet dreams


Whenever I close my eyes you are with me, Good night honey


I hope you have a great day tomorrow, I love you babe, good night


I love you more today than yesterday. Sweet dreams 


Sleep tight babe


I love you to the moon and back




Good night sleep tight


Our moments together are so special, sleep well babe


I dreamt about you last night and you were very sexy, I wonder what tonight will bring? Sweet dreams


What is a good message for her night?


Any of the messages above are perfect for her! Add some personal things, such as what you love or miss about her.



good night messages for her



How do you say goodnight to your girlfriend?


Depends upon where you are in the relationship. If it is in the beginning, you can be a little fun & flirty. Something simple such as “sweet dreams” would be a cute good night text for her.


 If you have told them that you love them already, then the messages can be more sentimental. Something that uses the word love. “I love you more today than yesterday, good night babe.”  


Using your nickname for them would be a perfect addition to your message which tells them how you feel in a personal way.


Make sure that the note is appropriate for how serious you are in the relationship. You don’t want to scare them away with an essay after knowing each other a few weeks. 


Also make sure you know where you guys are at and what is appropriate for both of you. Knowing your love language is also really helpful here. They might not be a words person, so find that out early on. 


What can I say instead of good night?


Sweet dreams, sleep tight, sleep well, have a good night’s sleep or any of the good night texts above.


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Conclusion Good night texts for her & him


Be creative and use your own words. The whole idea for sending a goodnight text or message is to connect in small ways throughout the day. 


The better you get at showing your feelings and letting your partner know, the stronger your relationships will become.


This is the goal, to keep your relationship strong & fresh.


Good night texts are a great way to make an impression on your partner. They can be something you or they look forward to every day, especially if you don’t get to talk throughout the day. 



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Below are two songs that would be perfect to send as a good night message!



cute good night texts



Good Night- The Beatles


Now it’s time to say good night

Good night sleep tight

Now the sun turns out his light

Good night sleep tight

Dream sweet dreams for me

Dream sweet dreams for you.

Close your eyes and I’ll close mine

Good night sleep tight

Now the moon begins to shine

Good night sleep tight

Dream sweet dreams for me

Dream sweet dreams for you.


Billy Joel- Lullabye (Goodnight My Angel)



Goodnight, my angel

Time to close your eyes

And save these questions for another day

I think I know what you’ve been asking me

I think you know what I’ve been trying to say

I promised I would never leave you

And you should always know

Wherever you may go

No matter where you are

I never will be far away



It's very possible that I may have some dreams about you that could be indecent. Sweet dreams.

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