Use these steps to learn how to make him miss you. These steps will create that craving or longing feeling that makes him start to obsessively think about you non stop.
How can I make him miss me badly?
These steps use psychology tips that are based on human behavior. It’s about understanding these tendencies and controlling them for your benefit.
How do you make a guy think about you constantly?
We have the best ways to create that “obsessive” feeling that makes him think about you all the time.
We have flirty, good morning and good night texts to send him so that he will think of you often throughout the day. Use sparingly as we talk about below.
How do you make him miss you and chase you?
Using these tips are the best chance that you have in getting the type of relationship that you want. The post below goes into some more details about this topic.
What Men want in a Woman: 5 Ways to Make him Chase You
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Give him something to miss
Make sure that when he thinks of you, the thoughts are positive. You want him to associate fun, love, happiness with his picture of you, especially when you are leaving.
Whatever the best parts are in your relationship, bring that to the forefront. Depending on the type of relationship that you have, having a memorable time may include being physical.
Put it this way, if you leave in an atmosphere of stress or insecurity, this will not leave either of you feeling good about the relationship.
When people feel that being with that other person brings added stress into their life, most will try to avoid that. It will feel more like a relief when you are apart. This is a simple fact.
If you enjoy the presence of someone (most of the time!) and you have fun with them, then you will miss them.
If you fight, argue and complain a lot when together, they will want to stay away from that as much as possible.
The goal is to leave him wanting more, which is the point of EACH of these steps. This is what creates that “craving or longing” feeling. It’s in wanting more of the pleasant experiences.
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Don’t be so available
People value what does not come easy. This principle applies to all things.You are a person of value, and have a life that you are living.
Which means you will not drop plans at the last minute. He has to value your time and make plans with you OR you will not be available.
This is NOT playing hard to get, but rather you are showing that you will not jump at his texts, calls or plans.
When you don’t immediately respond, this gives some time for him to wonder, “what is she doing?” “When will she text back?”
If he wants to be with you, he cannot just call you and you will come running. That takes zero effort. He has to make and keep his plans with you.
The difference between women being treated well and some that are not is directly related to what you expect from him.
You may think “what’s the harm?” I want to see him, he wants to see me…so why not? It goes back to “people value that which does not come so easy.”
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Limit contact
How can you miss someone when you are in contact with them all the time? Give some time to actually BE missed.
Don’t initiate each conversation. Let him reach out to you. You want him to make the effort.
Hesitate before answering each text or call this is just so that he doesn’t think that you are waiting anxiously on every text or call from him.
When you are talking and feel that you are coming to the end of the conversation, YOU end the conversation. Don’t wait for him to finish the call or text conversation. This leaves him wanting more.
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Don’t overshare
This goes along with limiting contact. You’re probably on at least some type of social media and if you are sharing every little thing about your life, “what’s to miss?”
Don’t post constantly, give your social media a little break when you want him to miss you.
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Add a little mystery
The more you fill in every detail, the less he will have anything to wonder about. If you want to be missed, then don’t tell him everything about your life. Save some things for when you are together.
For example if you are getting together with your girlfriends to do your nails, you could say,” I’m getting together with the girls.”
That may make him wonder what will the “girls” be doing? If he asks directly, then you can answer but if not then adding a little mystery makes him use his imagination.
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Look and feel your best
This is a win-win. When you look and feel your best it shows in the way that you walk and carry yourself. Confidence is so attractive and sexy.
Make the effort to focus on your wellness inside and out. Ask some friends to offer their opinions and make any changes that would help you to feel good about yourself.
Throughout our lives, our beauty routine does change so maybe try something new to make you feel sexy and in turn…look sexy!
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Show your Independence
So many of these steps are to show that you have a life and are independent. You have friends and hobbies and are showing him that you will keep these things in your life even if he is a part of your life.
I say this often, because I believe it so strongly…if you want to be an interesting person then do interesting things. You do not need him in your life, but want him there for what he ADDS to your already interesting life!
If you don’t have an interesting life, then do something about it. Find something that you would like to learn about or something that brings you joy and do MORE of that.
Important things to remember
These are all steps that will make him step up his game. They are each an “attraction hook.”
Meaning that each of these actions create a feeling of “what am I missing?” and shows you as the unique person that you are.
Remember that he MUST be worthy of your attention in the first place. Do not want him back for the sake of comfort and convenience.
No one likes to start over and the uncertainty of finding someone new is something that we put too much importance on.
You will always be happier single with lots of friends than you EVER will be in a bad or unhealthy relationship.
You are worth it! As the old saying goes. Remember that if you are in an unhealthy relationship, it not only affects you and your well being, but those that you are close to you.
If after using each of these steps you don’t feel valued, you have to be ready to walk away. You deserve to be with someone that values, respects and desires you, period.
Commonly Googled Questions “How to make him miss you”
There are many reasons for wanting him to miss you and below are some of the most commonly asked questions for different situations.
How to make him miss you and commit
You have the power to show him what a lifetime with you looks like. Using the steps above will help to show him all the ways that you are confident, independent and a high value woman.
But you will never be able to force someone to do something. Our article links below go into much more detail.
How to make him miss you and want you back
Using the steps above will show him what his life will be missing without you. These will entice him to give your relationship another try, as long as you are in a healthy relationship to start with.
How to Know if a Guy Likes you Through Texting
How to make him miss you long distance
When he is out of town you may feel even more insecure, especially in long distance relationships.
Here the goal is to make the time that you do have together special.
Use all the tips above that are relevant to a long distance relationship.
And use the date night ideas link for great ways to stay connected when you are apart.
25 Best Date Ideas for Long Distance Relationships
How to make him miss you after a fight
Use these same steps above. Depending upon the argument, you will need to get together to communicate honestly about why the fight happened.
Use these resources for communicating after a fight.
Why Couples Break Up & Ways to Keep your Relationship Strong
How to make him miss you after break up
Try the steps above, and use these resources to help you after a breakup.
13 Unmistakable Signs You are in a Toxic Relationship
Conclusion “How to Make him Miss you”
As we said above, the GOAL of each of these steps is to leave him wanting more. You want him to see everything that you have to offer, and how special that you are.
This will mean taking control of some of your impulses.
Acting needy and insecure in a relationship pulls people apart which makes it that much harder to have him miss you.
There are better ways and we talk about why each one is so powerful. You are showing him that life is better with you in it.
It would be his loss if he thinks he could find someone better than you.
If you stick to these steps and he still shows lack of interest. Then that IS his loss!
Never let someone make you feel “less than.”
One day he may realize what he has lost, but in the meantime, find someone that wants and deserves YOU!
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