Every women at some point wonders what men want in a woman. What is the secret to attraction and magnetism?
We also put together a great list of ways to make him chase you!
High value woman
People value what they earn
This means that people value what is not easily given or gotten. We know this, anything that we work for has a higher perceived value.
This happens in all aspects of life and is especially important in relationships.Being a high value woman means her time and attention is not given to anyone who is not worth it. This forces men to bring their A game which is necessary to win her over!
A high value woman has opinions and she voices them. She is not overly pleasing or acquiescing, guys think that women that have those traits aren’t confident in being their own person.
Being a woman of high value means she knows how to be treated and will not settle for any disrespect.
Having principles and standards that she lives her life by. No matter what those standards are she verbalizes them in a way that gets your point across while still being nice.
She is playful and kind with those that she is around. This warmth makes him want to be around her and her playfulness makes their time together lighthearted and fun.
Confidence is very sexy and powerful and this makes anyone that IS confident very attractive. Confident people know their worth and do not need someone else’s approval, they get their validation from themselves.
Someone that enjoys her own life
Men are attracted to women that have their own interests, hobbies and friends. In the beginning of any relationship, we want to spend a lot of our time with them. But we need to let the relationship breathe.
One of the reasons that he’s attracted to you is because of your interests, if you lose them, you will lose one of the reasons he liked you in the first place.
She doesn’t need a relationship for her happiness, but wants one to add to her already fulfilled life. This is important because he cannot be the one to fill any void.
Both need to be in a good place so that they are not needy in the relationship.
Everyone wants to have a THAT connection with someone. Communication and curiosity will be the key to finding out if you have things in common as a good starting point.
Finding out why someone does things or believes the way that they do will help you figure out if a connection is made and can be built upon.
There is a lot to learn but it only gets revealed a little at a time. Getting to know someone takes some time. She is both complicated and simple and it’s that mystery that keeps him curious.
Learning about someone requires vulnerability and this doesn’t happen overnight. Rather it takes trust and that only comes from spending time together in different situations.
This is usually enjoyable because many of our assumptions in the beginning start to change and we get to know the real person underneath.
Get vulnerable, be present and curious.
How you act, your body language and facial expressions. How you carry yourself and the confidence that you project.
The way you are look and dress are also part of the package. All of these things create a complete picture that you show to the world.
This is why meeting in real life is so valuable. A photo captures only a very small part of what makes you attractive. Your charisma can only be seen and felt in person.
How to make him chase you
Men are the hunters, if we chase them, it has the opposite effect. This is not about games, this is about creating a challenge that men desire.
Men want women that are a challenge so that shows then that you are a high value woman.
- Do not be too available. You never want to be available last minute or whenever you happen to get a phone call. Make sure that your time is treated with respect and that he knows that you will be busy if he doesn’t give enough notice.
- Have your own interests, so that your life does not revolve around him. Have things that you are passionate about. Showing your fun side will make him want to be around you..
- Make him feel needed. Ask for help or his opinion, allow him to be an important part of the relationship. By asking him for advice you are telling him that you trust and value his judgement.
- Voice your standards in a playful way. Expect him to work for you. Be kind, show interest but ultimately let them know what is acceptable to you. You set the standards and stick to it!
- End a date on a high. Leave them wanting more! It’s best not to let the date drag on so end it on a high note so that he can’t wait to see you again.
Below we list a few common questions that women ask and we thought it would be a good addition to this topic on what men want in a woman.
Where can I kiss a man to drive him crazy?
First listen to his cue’s. He will guide you to what he likes best. But by whispering in his ear and kissing his neck are almost universally loved (as long as it doesn’t tickle too much!)
With his eyes closed, kissing anywhere on his back working up to his neck can be intoxicating especially when part of a massage. A kiss on the lips that is barely there, keeps him wanting more.
What makes a man adore a woman?
Make him raise his game for you. Expect more. Make sure you are being your own person. Do not give up the things that you love for anyone.You are a unique person, do not lose what you are passionate about for any relationship.
Be grateful and appreciative for the things that he does for you. All those things that he does just to make your day a little easier, show that you notice and love him for it.
When a woman knows her worth, her man will treat her with the respect she deserves.
Having a playful physical touch when talking or passing by adds to your charisma when you are together.
How to show your boyfriend you care?
Show your boyfriend that you care, by giving him attention. Doing something fun for him such as cooking his favorite meal or giving a message will surprise and make him feel special.
Try hiding notes in his lunch or wallet of cute ways to tell him you love him.or that you are thinking about him.
You know what he likes, so be creative and show it by doing something unique for him.
How to keep a man in love with you?
First choose a person that is worth your love. If you fear losing your partner to someone else, your fear may actually make that happen. You need to bring your best well rounded self to the relationship.
Ask yourself the question, what do you bring to the relationship? It’s not just one thing that makes a person attractive but many things the create that whole picture.
You remember what brought the two of you together, so revisit your roots. Make sure that you are still doing some of the small things that we tend to do when first falling in love. Nurture the relationship!
It’s also important to make sure you have time apart. You can smother a relationship if you are not careful or forget what it is like to miss the other person. If you are dating, take time to spend on your own, whether it is an afternoon or a weekend girlfriend getaway.
How to keep your man interested in you?
Do not rush and invest too much into the relationship before your partner does.
Sometimes we fall for someone because we have hope of who they will become. But we need to see them for who they actually are and how they treat you, right now. We sometimes confuse the two, which we need to realize and stop asap.
Attraction is a dance, a dance of moving closer and stepping back. If either of these things are done too much such as smothering or not being open or vulnerable, the relationship will die out.
All of the things that are listed are what men want in a woman. As you can see most traits show a strong independent woman. If someone wants a weak, subservient person, then you walk away…fast.
The one mistake that some women make is not letting a man be a man. What I mean is that, although we may not NEED a man, he needs to feel needed and appreciated. Let him be a protector and take care of you sometimes. Allow him to feel important and valued by you.
The woman that can balance these traits will be attractive to any man
These attraction quotes put into words the feelings that people have experienced when they find that elusive spark!
“What you seek is seeking you.”
“When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.”
“That’s always seemed so ridiculous to me, that people want to be around someone because they’re pretty. It’s like picking your breakfast cereals based on color instead of taste.”
“I don’t fancy colors of the face, I’m always attracted to colors of the brain.”
“It’s the unknown that draws people.”
“Nature wishes that woman should attract man, yet she often cunningly moulds into her face a little sarcasm, which seems to say, ‘Yes, I am willing to attract, but to attract a little better kind of a man than any I yet behold”
“If somebody never gets enough of you, they will always want more”
“The bond forms from respect and shared experience, and though attraction can sometimes play its part, it is not necessary. Love is love and is the most powerful connection we humans have.”
“To men, women are endlessly fascinating as they’re a puzzle that can never be solved. To a logical creature like the human male, that’s an irresistible challenge.”
“The greatest feature on every person is their kindness. It’s a beautiful attraction that can’t be measured.”
“Moths don’t need to explain why they’re attracted to the light.”
“Energy doesn’t lie, what you attract is who you are.”
“Your beauty will attract him. Only your character will keep him.”
“Don’t ask how can I find a high quality man, rather ask how can I construct my life in such a high quality manner that high quality men just keep finding me.”
“It is so important to cultivate a lifestyle that reflects the relationship you want to have with your ideal man. Set a standard for yourself that is true to who you are, the type of man you want to attract, and the lifestyle you want to have with him, then maintain it until it’s deeply embedded in your DNA.”
“I’ve found that in my life that love and attraction can take many forms. And if one is open to unexpected possibilities, there are no boundaries.”
When you focus on being the best person you can be, you draw the best possible life, love, and opportunities to you.”
“In love there is no standard, no norm, no right and wrong. There is only attraction and desire.”
“Love is an infinite attraction with infinite power.”
“Distance yourself from people who:
1. Disrespect you
2. Mistreat others
3. Are abusive
4. Lie to you
5. Are negative
6. Have no goals
7. Use you
8. Put you down”